Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are. Chinese proverb
Take a relaxed view of your make up. Play around with comforting natural shades and soft, informal application. Blend, and really work the product. Think less about formal application lines, more about shade washes. Have fun with these colours, think about adding warmth, depth and calm to your look.
Ellis picked warm neutrals, browns and oranges as her relaxed shades. But please be authentic to your mood, and pick the colours that work for you. Then match the application to be as relaxed as you want to be.
Music playlist to help getting into this Mood: